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How much weight do your words hold?

Wednesday, May 31, 2017

"For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the gentiles do the same? You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect." - Matthew 5:46 - 48

While working at my job, I find myself asking my kids "How are you today?" and will get the same response of "Good" or "Bad." I pester them to elaborate, but they simply respond with the same one word answer. However, there are those moments when you ask that question, and someone becomes brutally honest, despite their age. And then I find myself trying to think of words of comfort that sound loving and caring, but does not sound condescending, as if I was trying to (intentionally or not) smother that person of their independence. I found myself asking this generic question, a question which we are taught to say at a young age for etiquette purposes or to avoid awkward pauses, without truly evaluating my own heart. 

Matthew 5:46-48 commands us to love even those who are our enemies; to take things a step back, Christ shows us how to love on others who we may find difficult to love. When we find people difficult to love, it may possibly be someone who has wronged us, hurt us, or even people we may find to be socially unrelatable. However, what if when we throw this generic question of "How are you?" out there like usual someone were to spill out their deepest darkest thoughts, those thoughts that might make us feel uncomfortable, thoughts that really show how one is doing? Are we as Christians, saved by grace and thus called to love one another as Christ loves us, equipped to respond? 

I know there are times where I'm caught off guard, and don't quite know what to say without intruding on that person's personal space, but I'm reminded by this passage that we're called to be perfect as our Father is perfect. Yet, I know I'm not perfect, and I see my deepest darkest flaws within me, those past mistakes and wicked thoughts that if shared to others might send them running. Luckily, I also am aware of my identity in Christ, and that although I as a person am not perfect, I am perfected through the salvation by the mercy and grace of God poured out through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross; it is through this lens of truth in my identity that I strive to view others. Romans 5:8 perfectly delineates God's heart: But God shows us His love in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 

I've come to realize that even the small and sometimes invaluable phrases or words that we say to initiate a conversation or to relay a greeting have great meaning when rooted in our intentions to glorify God. I catch myself constantly saying these words out of courtesy, and I am reminded that each interaction with a person can bear fruit to become a fellowship in God. 

When I was struggling with many things in the past, the one thing I absolutely hated was when people tried to give me advice based on their own experiences that did not seem to correlate at all with my life and experience. There was no common thread that I could relate to, and felt like I was not being understood. 

I recognize that there are people who are struggling just as much in their lives, even more, whether it be a personal struggle or a hardship caused by others. My prayer is that we as Christians, a community of believers who hold faith in the truth that we can go forth to our heavenly Father because of the propitiation of our sins by Jesus Christ, can truly be the reflection of Christ's love through our own personal experience and understanding of the unconditional love given to us by God. That despite not fully understanding the struggles of another person, that we may understand that the common thread we hold is our salvation in Christ and our identity as beloved children of God.

In our current society, it's so difficult for us to see ourselves in other people's shoes, sometimes believing that we're much better than those who have committed serious wrongs and those who may hold a negative image in our community, but I believe that as people founded on the truth of Christ, that we can overpass such mentality and exemplify a depth of love that cannot be identified in this world alone. 


Wrestling with Faith in a Public Platform

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

About a year ago, I posted an opinionated post regarding my faith and walk with God. Quite frankly, it was a long tirade of why I did not believe in God and why I had walked away from faith, a post fueled with emotion and a false grasp of the "truth." When I look back at some of my old posts on Facebook, including that (now deleted, phew) hot mess of a blog post, I realize that I catch myself being quite embarrassed as to my ideological thought processing of that time. Bare in mind, that blog post was merely posted a year ago, but in a span of 12 months, God has truly wrestled with me (laying a few smackdowns here and there) and my sinful heart. However, I wanted to discuss more about the aftermath of returning to God, after a time of wandering in a world I thought was correct.

As I join a new church and gain a new community of believers, I can't help but feel a familiar wave of insecurities regarding a set image I am expected to portray. Ironically, it's not during the in person communication that I feel these insecurities, but rather during the moments of self-portrayal via social media. When I was in college, I had struggled deeply with being viewed as "righteous and holy" in the eyes of my peers. Certain Facebook posts, mentions, tags, videos, etc were sometimes hidden from my timeline in fear of creating a realm of judgement from the very community I had thought I could lean on. The sobering reality was that I found many people struggling with feeling judged and defined by how they portrayed themselves on social platforms, and that ultimately they became burnt out and alone. 

The idea of feeling alone among a community of believers is terrifying when you realize that although we gather under the same notion of being the body of Christ, we as human beings struggle to accept those who may be different from us in behavior or thought process. The heartbreaking stories I hear all too common begin with "I grew up going to church all my life..." and end with "... and because I was hurt by the church, I decided to leave." I am very fortunate to have had a community of faithful believers embrace me with prayer during the few years I struggled with my faith. When I meet with some former college classmates, I'm met with the initial surprise of how they had seen me as an active member of the church, taking part in different leadership roles, and could never imagine the internal struggles I had with a community that I had been so actively a part of. 

My prayer this week, as I focus in on my insecurities as well as the the overflowing gratitude I have towards the old and new community of believers God has brought in my life, is that since we as a whole body of Christ cannot simply, through our own strengths, try and reflect the love of God to those around us, that the love and care for each other would be a product of the overflowing love of Christ that has embraced our lives. A community, like any family, will have its disagreements and arguments, but I pray that the foundation of our communities of believers would be based on not our own discomforts of trying to get along with people who are completely different from ourselves, but that we may love and develop relationships with empathy of knowing the truth of our salvation and identity. 


Almond Butter & Banana Toast

Saturday, September 12, 2015

Although I initially started this journey as an experiment, my vegan challenge has been oh so lovely. I've learned many new tricks and recipes to make food fun and enjoyable. Here, I'll share some of the recipes that I've learned for all the enjoy. :)

After sleeping in, I just craved a healthy breakfast for lunch. 
Today's menu? Almong Butter & Banana Toast; Green Juice on the side. 





Ingredients
* is what I used in my recipe

- 1 cup | Almond: Unsalted for a sweeter flavor* or salted for a saltier flavor
- 2 - 3 tbsp | Coconut oil: Unrefined for a sweet flavor with hint of coconut* or refined
- sprouted bread


Instructions
1. In a food processor or blender, blend almond until it becomes a fine grain
2. Add 1 - 2 tbsp of coconut oil and blend again until the almonds have a mud-like texture. Make sure to scrape the side of the food processor/blender as well as direct the almonds to the center because the thickness of the almonds may make the substance difficult to blend. 
3. Add the remaining coconut oil into the blender and continue to blend for a minute or two until the texture wanted is established. If you want a creamier texture, add more coconut oil until you've reached the desired texture.
4. Add salt (optional)
5. Enjoy~


Let's conquer this year!

Friday, July 24, 2015

  1. Yoga
  2. Read more books
  3. Paint
  4. Manage finances better
  5. Calligraphy
  6. Sell something online
  7. Less computer, more exploration

You of little faith

Saturday, May 30, 2015

It's too easy to be distracted and lost in a world that seems to offer much. Yet Christ has countlessly shown that He is enough for us. Such ideology is a common belief, but why is it that there are numerous times when I become so afraid of what I lack? I will admit that there are far too many times when I wish to forever hide from the world, so consumed by the feelings of inadequacy. When I reflect on my day, all that I can highlight are my mistakes and what those mistakes have produced, whether bad outcomes or judgement from others. I have somehow prioritized people's judgements over God's judgement.

When the disciples were so afraid that they would perish in the storm, they failed to realize that their savior was aboard the boat, resting instead of fretting.




23 And when he got into the boat, his disciples followed him. 24 And behold, there arose a great storm on the sea, so that the boat was being swamped by the waves; but he was asleep.  25 And they went and woke him, saying, "Save us, Lord; we are perishing." 26 And he said to them, "Why are you afraid, O you of litte faith?" Then he rose and rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was a great calm. 27 And the men marveled, saying, "What sort of man is this, that even winds and sea obey him? 

- Matthew 8:23-27 



I understand it is a difficult topic to discuss, but the Book of Revelation truly displays the depths of life. In the end, we will all stand before the great white throne (Revelation 20), before our God, and he will judge us through his perfect justice. I look at my life and my heart, and I see the wickedness within, the sinful person that I am. I am on the track to perish without Christ. 

These things are truths in my life, yet I do not lean on these truths during times of hardship. Rather, like the sinful person I am, I lean on my own strengths and emotions to decide how to take the next steps in life. Time and time again I am reminded of what little faith I hold, just as Christ rebuked his disciples and demonstrated that he is the way to life. O you of little faith. 

It's mind boggling to think that the disciples, after witnessing all of Christ's miracles, doubted Christ during times of hardship. The fear of man is deadly when man himself is allowed to take the reigns of his emotions. Just as Jesus slept and found rest during the storm, we are also called to find rest in Jesus when the storms continue in our lives. It is in the truth of Jesus, who he is and what he has done for us, that we find rest and the strength to turn to God. 

May these thoughts and words not be fruitless throughout my week, but may I hold dear on to these truths.

Natural Caffeine, Morning Edition

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Sorry, it just doesn't seem to be working out between us. Our relationship just wasn't meant to be. 

I'm talking about my relationship with coffee. 

I'm fine drinking a nice cold Starbucks Vanilla Bean Frappucino or a cold Chai Tea Latte, but can we really consider that coffee, or is that just a sugary drink?

What I'm talking about are the cups of Americano or even iced coffee. 

In high school, I used to be a horrible procrastinator, spending multiple nights cramming in homework or studying for a test. I would always drink Starbucks' Iced Coffee that were sold in a glass bottle. After school, I'd come home with a horrible stomache ache, and multiple trips to the bathroom. In college, I learned nothing and continued to do the same thing, but this time I drank the McDonald Iced Coffee. Let's just say I ended up having a caffeine induced panic attack during a discussion, and the trauma of that incident has not left me. Even recently, when I had to work overnight, I decided to give the Starbucks Iced Coffee in a glass one more chance, and the next thing I know is that I'm a bed ridden woman running to the restroom to throw up every ounce of my stomache. 

Honestly, there may have been many different factors to why I experienced such traumatic moments after drinking coffee, especially because well... it's Starbucks and McDonalds; not the best high quality coffee to test. However, since I associate coffee with my bodily breakdowns, I tend to stray away from coffee or anything related to coffee (except of course those sugary drinks). 

Thus, I have been on my search to find something I can drink to give me my much needed caffeine during the mornings that I struggle to stay up. 

Recently, I've been enjoying tea as a natural caffeine provider. My current tea favorite is Mighty Leaf. I am in LOVE with their teas and their packaging, as the tea pouches seems to be made so that we can experience the best quality of tea. 











Here is an exerpt from Mighty Leaf's FAQ page:



What is your tea pouch made of?
Our tea pouches are made from polylactic acid (PLA), which is derived entirely from renewable resources, such as corn.

Are the tea pouches compostable?  Mighty Leaf Tea Pouches are crafted from polylatic acid (PLA), which is dervied entirely from renewable resource, such as corn. Our pouches compost in a commercial composting facility. Please check to make sure facilities are available in your area. The string and tag are also compostable and do not need to be removed before discarding.  



"Renewable resources"

Another plus in my book of teas!






I will admit, I am a Gold member at Starbucks. 

Yes, you heard me. 

I am notorious for getting a "Grande Vanilla Bean Frappucino with two pumps of raspberry."

However, perhaps it's time to reduce my sugary drink intakes, and focus more on natural caffeine and beverages. 








Tea Tea Tea, be in my tummy :) 


Lynn



Dear Love; Lynn

Monday, April 13, 2015

Dear Love,

Your name is Lynn.

You've always hated that name as you thought it was

plain, 
short, 
ugly, 
uninteresting, 
rhymed with your last name, 


and so on. The list can continue, and it has throughout your life.

However love, I hope that you can learn to fall in love with it.

I hope that you can find the beauty, the uniqueness, meaning, and the worth of your name. Perhaps through such recognition you will learn to love yourself.

Indeed, you are quite unique. Some people have pointed out such quality of you in both a positive and negative manner. Through such experiences you've been both flattered and hurt by such comments.

Nonetheless, I hope that you can find yourself amid those views, apart from the magnifying glass that people tend to place focused upon you, and experience a true love for self.

Because you see, hope is a powerful thing, and the beauty of hope you will find once you embrace such belief.

Dear love, I hope you learn to embrace and love yourself.


Love, You.
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